This characteristic of leadership is certainly seen in Nehemiah’s ministry. One out of every ten verses in Nehemiah is a reference to prayer. Chapter Two of Swindol’s Hand Me Another Brick, (his commentary of Nehemiah’s leadership) is entitled “A Leader---From The Knees Up.”
J. Oswald Sander in his Spiritual Leadership writes: “Since leadership is the ability to move and influence people, the spiritual leader will be alert to discover the most effective way of doing this. One of the most frequently quoted of Hudson Taylor’s statements is this expression of conviction that ‘it is possible to move men, through God, by prayer alone” (page 82). Nehemiah moved Artaxerxes through his model prayer that we will look at now.
Here are Six Marks of Leadership in Nehemiah:
1. He Shows Concern for God’s Work (Nehemiah 1:1-4)
2. He Prays for God’s People (Nehemiah 1:5-11)
3. He Follows his Leader (Nehemiah 1:11-2:8)
4. He Motivates his Followers (Nehemiah 2:9-20)
5. He Organizes his Work (Nehemiah 3:1-32)
6. He Handles his Opposition (Nehemiah 4-6)
The Second Mark of Leadership: The Leader Prays for God’s People
Peter Drucker in Effective Executive wrote, “Effective executives do first things first.” Nehemiah is following this principle when he prays before he jumps into any other problem solving method.
Before Nehemiah addresses his human king (2:3), he addresses his divine king (1:5-11). When there is a problem in our life or ministry what is our first reaction?
Do we first attack the person with whom we disagree? Nehemiah did not attack Artaxerxes who was standing in his way of returning to Jerusalem to rebuild the walls. About 13 years earlier Artaxerxes had decree that no more work be done on the wall (Ezra 4:21).
Do we attack the problem in our strength or wisdom? Do we whip out our smart phone and start wheeling and dealing?
The proper response is the response of Nehemiah: Attack the problem on your knees.
Here are the elements of a leader praying for his people who need his leadership. This pattern is seen in other model prayers such as Ezras' in Nehemiah 9, Daniel's in Daniel 9 and Jesus' in Luke 11.
A. Praise for Who God Is (1:5)
1. Praise for His Greatness
Even though the problem in Nehemiah’s life is “great” (1:3) Nehemiah focuses on his “great” God (1:5). The greater God becomes in our thinking, the smaller become our problems. Prayer is our response to Christ’s words “Without me you can do nothing.”
2. Praise for His Awesomeness. Notice how often "the great and terrible God" appear together in praise to God in the Old Testament (Nehemiah 1:5; 4:14; 9:32; Daniel 9:4). Praise to God puts our problems in perspective.
Henry and Richard Blackaby in Spiritual Leadeship in chapter seven "The Leader's Influence" stress that leaders influence others through prayer. They give six reasons why leaders should pray. The fourth reason is "God is all-powerful. . . .God can do far more than even the most resourceful leaders. God's promise is open ended: 'Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock; and it will be opened to you' (Matt. 7:7 NIV). If someone is angry with a leader, reconciliation might look impossible. But God can melt the hardest leader. Leaders can be stymied when people refuse to cooperate. But God can change people's attitudes overnight. There are times when even the most powerful CEOs in the world can do nothing but retreat to the privacy of their executive office, pray, and let God work."
The Blackabys next gave this example. "When Nancy Reagan was diagnosed with a malignant tumor and had to undergo a mastectomy, her husband, though he was President Ronald Reagan, realized that even being the most powerful executive in the world had its limits. Commenting on that day, Reagan confessed: 'For all the powers of the president of the United States, there were some situations that made me feel helpless and very humble. All I could do was pray---and I did a lot of praying for Nancey during the next few weeks'" (Spiritual Leadership, pages 149-150).
B. Confession of Sin (1:6-7)
1. Identification of Sin in 1:6 is heard in this petition: “we have sinned against you.” After worshiping God’s greatness and awesomeness it is easy to see our littleness and our sinfulness. The closer we get to God the bigger become our sins. This was the experience of Isaiah in Isaiah 6:5. After Isaiah saw the exalted holiness of God all he could was cry, "Woe is me for I am undone. I am a man of unclean lips."
2. Definition of sin is heard in 1:7. Sin is not only breaking God's rules (1 John 3:4) but sin is also offending a holy God who can be grieved. Someone said, "Grieve is a love word. You can only grieve someone who loves you." When we sin we break the heart of our Heavenly Father. David realized this neglected petition of sin when he confessed, “Against thee and only thee have I sinned” (Psalm 51:4).
It is refreshing to hear a leader take responsibility for his sin rather than blaming others.
C. Claiming of God’s Promises (1:8-10)
Nehemiah quoted God's promises from Dt 28:63-67 and 30:1-5 in his prayer in Neh 1:8-9. Nehemiah had to know God’s Word in order to claim the promises of God’s Word. About George Muller it was said he read his Bible on his knees. We should read God’s Word as leaders not to become scholars who impress our followers with our Google knowledge but we should read God’s Word to pray with power for our people.
D. Surrender to be the Answer (1:11)
Our prayers can move the heart of God to move the heart of the king (Proverbs 21:1). But then we surrender to be the person God uses to move the king (1:11). It has been well said, “It’s great to get answers to your prayers. It is even greater to become the answer to your prayer.”
God had providently move Nehemiah into a position and relationship with Artaxerxes to be His instrument of change. In Persian art, the official cupbearer is shown to be next to the crown prince in attending to the king. God has strategically placed each of us in places of influence to pray for and be the answers to our prayers to move people onto God’s agenda. Who is the Artaxerxes in your life that God has positioned you near so you can move him to God? Is he your boss at work or your neighbor? Are you praying for the opportunity to impact him for God's glory? Lets ask God to use us to be the answer to our prayers as we lead God's people to accomplish great exploits for Him.